Anyways..its going on three weeks and no contact despite me initating text and me calling twice and he only answered the first one. It seemed like when I told him I was starting to feel like a convenience, it pissed him off. Really disappointed that people lack common decency, courtesy and respect in communicating with others. But, I absolutely agree with you that in the end it speaks to his character or perhaps life circumstances, not you or what you did wrong. Look, dont feel so bad. In early dating, Ive had guys ghost before. I recently met a guy online, and he was really chatting me up. Wouldnt it be so much easier if everyone just honestly said how they felt instead of leaving the other person hanging. The difficulty very often in these cases (which compounds the process) is that most women (myself included at one time) automatically assume hes vanished because he isnt or has lost interested, so react accordingly, which often only serves in turn to strengthen his original point of view. He wanted to flew to meet me (different country) and he made plan himself and I loved that plan and then he disappeared I thought he sick or anything i email him to asked if he was okay but he answered me hi, beautiful i had big test today, miss you so much, I will tell you about it when I get home I think he never gets home :( He wasnt over expressive but we mutually marveled at how much we already liked eachother, etc. I never heard from him again. When we would speak on the phone it was fine but again, the texts were different. They come on strong but need to retreat to their man cave every now and then and want their space but rebound like a boomerang if they ever liked you. I laugh when he texts me by mistake my name and his bestfriends name are listed next to each other to see if he gets a quick response from me. 7. I am putting everything into trying not to send off an email asking for some sort of closure. I sure didnt and dont. Last week I couldnt talk to him that much as I was studying a lot and then I asked to catch up with him this week and he said sure thing and I messaged him what day he was free and he didnt reply I havent heard from him in 4 days! Havent heard from him since and Im getting over him, but it definitely was a blow. 2. He never once even insinuated he wanted m to permanently leave him alone. Any advice on how to handle this? However, if you have been in this situation, you know how much it hurts when you know someone is deliberately laying games with your feelings! If he did t like me why didnt he politely tell me. And then now hes the one giving me the cold shoulder?! This is the road Ive usually taken with him but I dont want to rush things and feel I should continue talking to him a bit longer before trying to see if hes interested in starting something again. Nobody likes to be ghosted. Dont text them. Are we lovers, are we co-workers or should we pretend that we dont know each other? I feel so stupid sometimes cause deep down I want to hear from him. Then, hed go a week. Life is difficult, and then you die. No wonder so many men cheat and leave most of you. We still texted but minimally and he came to pick me up midday for food and a little excursion. There are some things that are totally in a woman's control: Let's take a walk down the hall of shame: Being boring. So I figure he met someone else he liked better, got back with his exwhatever. Thats what Women have reduced themselves to. Text him only once after he disappears. So after a week I just send him an email saying goodbye. Text him only once after he disappears. He was on the rebound. Dont reach out again. When you let go of something, you take away the power from that thing to control you and hold you back. To tel So I snapchatted him at midnight and then went to sleep. You wonder why would someone deliberately send mixed signals . Do you live in London? I can understand that but when we do choose to reach out and the guy is not having it- it HURTS. I am so hurt and confused. You see, I am very sapiosexual and love to have a banter with like minds and since we both worked in similar demanding professional fields, I felt like he was the proverbial One. I told him that Im really into him but I dont feel ready, and he was saying a lot of nice things back. I honestly dont even know So we met to drink some beer and have dinner and It was really amazing, we talked about many things including personal and deep conversations. He was clearly pulling away. The last day of school (on december) we went to the mall and we ended up hooking in the car (I know, ridiculous ha). He last talked to me on March 9th. I feel bad writing such positive things about me. I was freaking out so he gave me a small card before going to the washroom that said please relax. I texted to ask how his day was and he just said ok. He asked him if he was alright because he seemed off. I am a dude who admittedly has shied away from many relationships that were apparently working great. I was really disappointed for awhile because I really liked him. Long story short he was not over her cuz itd been only about a month since they split. He professed his love to me daily. 8. Now nit only Im stuck in this situation where I put myself after traveling with him for 2 years and half and I spent my money on the relationship. We kept finishing each others sentences and thought along the same line. Please help I definitely dont want to just give up and move on because I feel as if our relationship is very unfinished. met her on Tinder. Ive been played hot and cold before and Ive been deceived by ex boyfriends in the past but Im in a situation at the moment that I really cannot get my head around. Me Should have been wiser than that I could predict that he would do that again. It took me a long time to recover since I got attached to him emotionally by talking with him a lot. he went all out, swept me of my feet and made me the happiest girl in the world. Pretty much all the ones who were so excited and were talking up a storm would be the most likely culprit to suddenly vanish. You were physically, emotionally, and mentally attracted. After texting for 3 weeks I listened to friends who suggested I ask him to coffee! As you can see Im not over him and maybe if I would of ended contact in the beginning things would be different but I very much would like to have a second chance of being with him. Im so glad I found this post! Not wanting to be that girl, I just casually text to say hi. We are both runners. From that text, he hasnt said anything back and its been about a week. Greatest guy, very sweet and very respectable. In the interim I noticed him make googly eyes at a female on Instagram. Thats part of how you know hes Mr. We had prearranged plans for my birthday three days later and I decided I wanted to go anyway, at least we could talk and part ways nicely as I knew friends wasnt an option. The next day he sent me a text to say sorry for the late reply was really wasted and took me a day to recover.. Of and told me he has never met anyone like me and I was too good to be true but tjah he wants to settle We risk 50% of our shit if we do. Pretend like he doesnt even exist, like you never even met him. Fast forward, to a year ago. He was through two marriages earlier which left him feeling damaged. So the worst part is that now Im torturing myself not only thinking that he had this planned long time ago and just wast waiting for the day of stabbing me in the back like this, he either knew that I been living with my family and didnt get settled with a lease here in the USA because I had the hopes of seeing him again and he knew this same week my family treated me like crap, and I couldnt wait to get out of here and see him again and all those plans of this past week. 5. Most are liars, and the other ones are cowards. Yes, we do, but we want things like they were in the first 2 months or so when we are on our best behavior. Nothing seemed out of place. I feel so rejected and actually find it damn rude. I sensed in his eyes when we talked that he was indeed falling for me. There was never really a boyfriend/ girlfriend type relationship from what I read. I should not have said a word. After a period of time I figured out what he was doing, I felt very disrespected and less of a lady because of it. Just as things are progressing nicely, it all stops and he's gone. Don't Text Him, You Have Nothing to Lose. After that I also stoped texting and after 20 days I texted asking how he is doing. Hotter and prettier and with a better body. There is nothing to fear but fear itself. I knew all along that it wouldnt last forever but then he started saying things about the future and friends of his Ill meet etc. And there was no goodbye, no thank you said or anything. It takes balls to have that conversation. I said if you dont want to say it back thats fine, I guess you dont love me or you would say it. No movement. I bet if you didnt mind home wrecking than he would have left his family for you. Then said gnight, then poof gone out of thin air. At the end of the day, its basic human respect. am really confused please help. Blocked him on whats app as well. I cried two days straight and moped all 4 days not coming from my room. Two of them got in contact with me much, much later. Seriously! Theres a pattern that sees through this game that some guys obviously love to play. Please realize that if we keep pretending to be cool with it we are lying, to ourselves first and foremost. However, don't bomb his phone with your text especially when he doesn't reply. I felt like we had a good timehe took me to a really nice place after the restaurant where you can see the whole city and after that I went home cas I had told Intimacy is THE GLUE in a relationship. This guy isnt man enough to handle the situation like an adult, so youre going to have to be the adult. I told him i knew he was never going to contact me again. But no man in the world has never not done something like that, at least once. You only went out once. I waited a few weeks then I called him he didnt reply. He sounds exciting but in reality extremely immature, might shower attention on you when youre together, but in reality knows youre special and hes not so ghosts hanging out posting pics of other girls to beef himself up regardless of how that might make you feel. Given the short time i have not got very concerned. I just freeze up. And it failed miserably. There. When I was heading back to the car park with him, the parking station was closed. i will never reach out to him again & i hope he never reaches out to me again either. He was like we CANNOT have SEXI said fine, I wasnt into someone not into me anyway. at some point he was supposed to move to ny, and we were both really excited cause we knew something was gonna finally happen between us. One of my dates recently told me she spent 6 months with a guy who was a total robot and never showed a shred of emotion, yet when he finally broke up with her she was hurt. I really hope you will be strong and then if he still doesnt answer your text or clarify his stands, please, just move on and never text him again. I called him like 3 or 4 times everyday for about 5 days, he didnt answer. Im not bad looking. Reply Link. It hurts like hell and i do not know what to do. Im sitting here laughing my ass off as to how cray-cray Ive been acting I literally did everything the quiz results advise not to do! how about you go figure out what it is that you want because clearly its not me. Dont reach out to him.under any circumstances! I really cant play those games with him anymore, as they are destroying me. I text him and no response. I dont delete their numbers. I had a man propose to me too then ghosted on me. The good news is, that doesnt diminish you and what you have to offer some other great guy. I have done that as well- but if i MAKE plans for a second date i will never cancel last minute- just a rule i have for myself. He responded a day later and said he was good and had a rough week. The secret is to get yourself into what I call a love abundance mindset. He says to have fun. Meet a guy on a dating website. Guys sometimes feel they are not good enough for the person they admire. He talked about wanting to see my apartment and other things that would leave me to believe this would not be the last time I saw him. I have read all the comments here, and I laughed out loud for 10 minutes at yours.it brought so much joy to meLadies please take note of Jasmines approach we have to BOSS UP!!!!! He dissAppeared from whatssap and hangouts and when I came from work to ask about when we would buy the tickets to my country to meet there again, he not longer answered me anymore. Honestly I would be fine if HE hadnt been the one to get emotional first. But to be fair, you must see it from their perspective too. Hi, Im getting worried. Incompatibility happens. From what you have related, it was certainly nothing you did and the vanishing just came out of the blue. Yes hunny, youre done. If he pops up again later, call him out on it. I have started dating again and these are the exact things I have been dealing with. He kept smiling at me and so and I had to answer im not going anymore three months later, I texted him, saying that I deserved an answer as to why he had done this to me. Hah . We all justify our behaviour to an extent. And its not because I dont care about them. I would put the odds of there being a problem with him at around 10%. We never saw eachother yet and we made plans to see eachother on a Saturday. he lives in a different town but he would come every so often and we would hang out every time. I had the same exact thing happen to me. I was very unsure because from the pictures I had seen he was totally not my type but he was smartand funny so I agreed. He sounds like a selfish jerk,no matter how sweet he might have been when things were new. He never called, so I decided to text him the next day to end things. Id appreciate the communication either way. Although it sucks, I realize that I dont deserve this and hes just not the guy for me. Relationships unfold organically, at the right time, and not after a series of pointless dates with strangers. During the last 2-3 days I have kept the conversations a little bit cold since he only texts me to say good night and then says I am going to sleep (this only during this week). Think about it and keep looking for someone normal. Hmmmm, I felt probably he was open to making this thing he had going work but it took me a week to reply that I wanted, A man who Respect and Treat me exactly how he would want his sister or daughter to be treated. He was very hurt by his ex wife and I think he has commitment issues. I met him and we both liked each other and we hit it off. Sure, I was the Cool Girl with no drama, no neediness, but thats still not enough Btw, I found out that he got married soon after he emailed me. As a guy disappears when you think things are going alright, his sudden behavior leaves you stunned and confused about the next step. Good luck! Him: Naah..How can I with you on my mind? This just happened to me. A guy did this to me once, after a few weeks of seeing each other. Rabz, Under no circumstance, will you reach out to him, text him, tweet him, call him or have any sort of contact with him..The thing about men, unfortunately is that they love the chase..And they also like confident women who at least seem not to require their reassuranceYou have contacted him enough..Let him get some space, some time to miss your presence..He cannot do it with you constantly reaching out to him..Guys need time to themselves where they can feel like men again..they are not like women who need to close the space, with constant contact..So just let him beTry not to think about himI dont think he was turned off by your looks or personality..But sometimes insecurity can be an attraction killer since the guy feels pressured to reassure the girl over and over again, so it can be a bit draining..so Now you need to step back from your phone, because nothing is going to happen by sitting by and waiting for him to reach out to youHe will come around if he is meant to be with youDont give him anymore importance or time or energyIt is painful when things dont work out, believe me, I have been there over and over againBut losing sight of ourselves is not going to do anything..Yes he is a jerk for losing touch, he is a big jerk for not telling you, but by reaching out to him you are giving him a negative ego boostJust let things run their courseAnd try to open yourself to other guys on that siteI need to take that advice too, though its been difficult to even look at other mens profiles..but you just have to push through your disappointment..By the time he comes around, you will probably have found someone else who respects you for who you are and is not scared off by a few extra textsand you probably wont even want him anymore..so be Kind to yourself, buy yourself a pretty dress, wear some heels, and go out with your friends.You never know, you might meet someone really awesome who will make you forget this guy who you met online.. Thankyiu so much! What to text him when he disappears has also to do with your ability to text while being stressed and anxious. I was lucky once. Yes I agree its a shame, Kim and Anna, This started weighing on me after a while. It sucks. So did you ever meet this guy? He might be too busy all the time to hang out with you, or he will always have an excuse for why he didn't call or invite you out. Said he was staying with a friend in a town near me and again I suggested a catch up. Was there any girl or behavour that you reacted differently to? I said no.. And we swapped numbers again. Get over your delusions! Dont settle for anything less. My FREE guide explains http://www.WhyHesGone.com Don't Miss Out! Definitely feeling like an idiot. I dont know how I will get over this! He would follow me around and even sit with me on break, tell me how beautiful I was. Her goal is to bridge the gap with modern dating and help inspire people to learn to love dating. 2. I had a similar experience as yours, met a guy on a dating site who lives about 3 hours away. Any insight here would be MUCH appreciated heres the scoop: I had been seeing this guy for about two weeks. I was being friendly. Recently divorced At first I thought hed met someone else on his weekend but to be honest its not like we were official so I dont get why he would cut me out! I try to say its important. I even asked him several times and told him that tif there was someone else that he was into. So I confronted him about being so unavailable. and after they cause all the wrong they dont care at all about the other persons feelings. I got too attached too quickly, demanded too much, and when he didnt deliver, I broke it off. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. It sucks that I lost my best friend and also the fact that I told him I like him too then he disappeared. Im having a really hard time getting over this and could really use some support. What Does Taking It Slow Mean To A Guy? big halloween party at my friends place after dinner holding conversation becoming a little more difficult. He offered all his time to me, then poof. He told you he wanted to hang and then never reached out again nor did he respond when you sent him the last message. Like Oprah says, The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them. My bet is that this isnt the first time hes been flighty towards you. Maybe we should bring back the hard times. Go get your hair and nails done. Stop trying to make it happen and move on. Natasha, . Is it because he knew that there will be no sex and no nothing more or what.. why wont he explain or atleast try to.. Could anyone please explain.. Or because Im younger or because hes stressed about money and job (hes not doing well right now). Since hes not doing well this probably is not a good time for him to be focused on a relationship. The broken promises of I will be back in a few weeks from work and it changes to months and months. Your story really affected me! Thank you for sharing, Charnel. if you dont, do yourself a favor and delete it from your phone immediately. it got worse. Yet he would answer me later in the day or evening. At the same time, he doesnt want to let you go and give you the closure you need to break up with him forever. Now I am 25 and he is 31 so we are both adults. Im gonna feel better in no time, I hope. I dont mean dating sites, I mean distance relationships. I just recently got ghosted. he contacted me again.. Ive had guys do this to me. Unless youve had the relationship talk and agreed you are dating or in a relationship, then the guy doesnt think he ghosted on you. Should I try to reach out when Im Ppl pointed things out to me that I didnt even realize I was doing. He sstopped replying me and disappeared.. Maybe because I spoke up and said something of how I was really starting to feel. Continued to text but avoid weekends until of course valentine rolled around. I met this guy online on a website that advocates marriage. My online boyfriend of 15 months asked for a 4-6 week break after a few misunderstandings and perhaps my neediness issues.We are both in our 40s, it was a loving long distance relationship, and we have met about 4 months ago, which was fantastic, we got on as well as we always did through phone, email and video..After I received the email stating he was sorry, but needed this time, as he couldnt deal with this while dealing with problems at work (he also told me how much he loved me) I waited a week to reply, so I wouldnt be too emotional in my reply. 2: A worthy man who is really into you and excited to carry on seeing you but feels you dont feel the same way may ghost. Anyways, in our culture, we dont kiss or sleep He told me he was starting to like me and didnt want to take things too fast (aka have sex too soon) which was refreshing to hear from a man for once. I was seeing a guy for 3 weeks. Spent a couple months having some great times. As with most painful experiences only time will heal. Its a waste of energy. But thats not what this guy is going to get. Hey, I just realized that I havent heard back from you in a while and Im a bit confused. Kick that ass to the curb, hun. I guess time will heal Cant wait to be over this ???? I need help!!!! I made the discussion about me and how he made me feel. Sorry for bad English since its not my mother language. I did send a final email and told him I simply cannot understand why he did not tell me that he did not want to see me anymore and that I would never do something so inconsiderate to someone that I told I loved and cared for. I been crying since then. I said ok and then theyd say theyll contact me tomorrow to ask about scheduling a time. The list is exhausting. Its been a month now since I wrote my goodbye email to him, no reply. Are you willing to give him one more chance or has he wasted all of them? I feel disappointed, he had most of the qualities l was looking for but l guess he lost interest. Sometimes we just invite in the Trojan Horse. Then about 2 weeks before the vanishing act he started saying he was feeling really depressed, spending more time alone, but still seeing me atleast twice per week. When a guy disappears and then reappears, probably you've unintentionally bruised his ego so here he is trying to prove you wrong. He said he couldnt and then I gave up. To show up at his house in costume lingerie? Wed text for a bit and theyd want to meet up and such. He seems to be getting flirty and friendly with some girl. Yes, people are complex, but that doesnt mean you should just assume they are too complex. I got ghosted today and i texted all night like a dumb-a. (no regrets, I do what I want) But quite honestly, I actually think this is kind of funny. Acting and talking arrogantly. we still text each other once a week. Whats up? We been seeing each other for few months and he introduced me to his family and friends and this has been the first time a guy ever has introduced me to their loved ones and I felt special and flatter. It was my fault? two weeks ago, when walking at the train station, we unexpectedly met, hes the one who saw me, stopped walking, smiled at me..i was so relieved and wondered what he had thought of me.. he messaged me later that saying that we had to meet again, he thought I was gorgeous, and a lot of other nice things when finally I told him so when are we hanging out , I got a lets plan for next week babe, I asked him when , and he never replied. We talk again on the phone for another hour the next night and I am on cloud nine. Start your own life and make a new plan without him. Our paths then crossed a few weeks later, he was polite but that was it. that i am one of the best woman he ever met.. but whatever!! I texted 3-4 times in week and telling what was going on with me. That you do get through it. I dont want him out of my life, but I am not ok with our current situation either. Not to be vain but she was nothing g special to look at smissed it but it caught my interest. Please help me. Hes only a lesson and nothing more than that. I just think that women tend to be too quick to say that a man doesnt care over something as silly as not calling them every 5 seconds. I now come with a warning label if you want to date me. Keep it under control. The first time he did this was after we got intimate. Im so confused and stress with this situation. One man I was super interested in . We date for 3 months. I texted him the following evening (Monday) apologizing for staying so late, and said I hope he got enough sleep. God bless! Hell realize that he lost a girl who actually wanted to be his, one who would have fought for him and defended him in front of everyone. Unfortunately, these qualities are handicaps that blind you to reality. I deactivated my own Facebook account for a while. Sad that he didnt respect me enough after all Its so easy to get wrapped up in a guy and feel that he is the only one out there for you, when that is so far from the truth! Boy, do I wish I had not done so. I agree with you totally, My situation is so much worse and has just become ridiculous, I dont even know what the heck anymore. Best of luck to you. This will eat away at your self-esteem and will repel any new potential suitors that might come along. I always show genuine appreciation. Until the last date. A guy knows the effects his behavior has on you. I really like this guy and it would be really disappointed if I dont hear from him :(. He also found out my birthday was soon during one of our conversations, and asked what he should get me for itasked multiple times. I am in your situation but sort of from the opposite side & want to shed light into what may be happening. He doesnt reply. Then there was a tragedy in his family, I got a text telling me this, I responded sympathetically and he replied thanking me for my understanding and saying he loved me..and then nothing! The message is likely to read, "Hey" or "Been thinking . No reply. now i need to work with the damage; thank you so much for helping me see this and helping me move on! Stop talking to him and if he starts texting you a lot again he is probably interested. He wasnt from my area so I figured free dinner and nice conversation! The city I dropped him Of course he didnt answer. He blocks me on Facebook the day or two before his overseas trip. 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